Carson Crimeni. Photo via GoFundMe
There are lessons to be had in the death of Carson Crimeni, some of them more obvious than others.
Crimeni died Aug. 7 in Langley in an apparent drug overdose. Videos of the 14-year-old appearing to be very intoxicated were posted to social media by 鈥渇riends鈥� who were with him.
贬颈蝉听聽calls him a 鈥渇un-loving jokester who loved to make everyone laugh.鈥� It says he loved animals, cooking and playing video games. Calling him generous and caring, it says he was his father鈥檚 best friend and his family鈥檚 greatest gift.
Crimeni鈥檚 family is clearly devastated by his death and would probably give everything they have and more to say one last 鈥淚 love you.鈥�
Another lesson: Treat others kindly. Yes, the old golden rule is still one to live by. If people had treated Crimeni as they would like to be treated themselves, he might still be alive.
It turns out, at least one person tried to help Crimeni.
厂辞尘别辞苍别听聽after seeing photos on snapchat and worrying about his welfare. That was at 8 p.m.
Two officers went to see if Crimeni was OK, but they couldn鈥檛 find him, the Independent Investigations Office of B.C. said in a聽.
Crimeni was dead just a couple of hours later, after being found, still breathing, by another teenager heading home around 10 p.m.
The IIO is now investigating what role, if any, the officers鈥� actions or inactions played in Crimeni鈥檚 death.
While a lesson for the police might be to look harder, there are other lessons for the rest of us. First off, don鈥檛 take drugs. For those who cannot abstain, only take drugs in the presence of other people and, preferably, people who will help you out if something goes wrong.
Metro 麻豆传媒映画is in an opioid crisis, one in which thousands have died. Of this year鈥檚 538 deaths, 87 per cent died inside, mostly alone and in a private residence. So, if you鈥檙e going to do drugs, any drugs, surround yourself with people who care.
It鈥檚 not clear in Crimeni鈥檚 case what drugs he took, how he got them or whether he knew what he was taking.
If you鈥檙e around people who are taking drugs and one of them gets into trouble, call 911.
颁补苍补诲补鈥檚听聽protects people, including the person overdosing, from legal charges for the possession of drugs, when they call for help in an overdose.
Calling 911 should be easy, since everybody鈥檚 got a phone in their pockets. Another thing that鈥檚 easy, but that can also be dangerous, is taking photos or videos and sharing them on social media. The role of social media in bullying is growing, as we鈥檝e seen now in Carson鈥檚 death and in others, like聽, who committed suicide in 2012 after being harassed online and posting a YouTube video about her experience.
Anxiety is also growing, possibly linked to the聽聽and social media. With that comes depression and feelings of isolation.
The idea that someone would knowingly videotape a person overdosing and share that on social media without calling for help is abhorrent.
Less extreme than that, but still obvious is the lesson to never post anything on social media that could embarrass yourself or your friends in the future. Keep it classy. Your future selves will thank you.
But the not-so-obvious lesson is to give yourself a break from your phone, social media and technology as a whole. Have fun with your friends in person and not just as avatars online. Get together, laugh, feel good. Break that hold technology has over us all.
Let鈥檚 reiterate the lessons that Carson Crimeni鈥檚 death can teach us. First of all, love your kids and let them know. Treat others kindly. Try not to take drugs, but if you must, take them only with other people who care about you. If you鈥檙e with someone who has taken drugs and who may be overdosing, call 911. Keep your social media channels classy. Take breaks from technology and get together with your friends in person.
Carson Crimeni鈥檚 death shouldn鈥檛 be for nothing. Let鈥檚 make him a catalyst to create a better life.
