NEW YORK (AP) ā It can be hard to catch Carrie Coon on her own.
She is far more likely to be found in the thick of an ensemble. That could be on TV, in for which she was just Emmy nominated, or in which she recently shot in Thailand. Or it could be in films, most relevantly, Azazel Jacobsā new drama, in which Coon stars alongside Natasha Lyonne and Elizabeth Olsen as sisters caring for their dying father.
But on a recent, bright late-summer morning, Coon is sitting on a bench in the bucolic northeast Westchester town of Pound Ridge. A few years back, she and her husband, the playwright moved near here with their two young children, drawn by the long rows of stone walls and a particularly good BLT from a nearby cafe that Letts, after biting into, declared must be within 15 miles of where they lived.
In a few days, they would both fly to Los Angeles for the Emmys (Letts was nominated for his performance in ). But Coon, 43, was then largely enmeshed in the day-to-day life of raising a family, along with their nightly movie viewings, which Letts pulls from his extensive DVD collection. The previous nightās choice: with Holly Hunter and Richard Dreyfus.
Coon met Letts during her breakthrough performance in āWhoās Afraid of Virginia Woolf?" at Steppenwolf in 2010. She played the heavy-drinking housewife Honey. It was the first role that Coon read and knew, viscerally, she had to play. Immediately after saying this, Coon sighs.
āIt sounds like something some diva would say in a movie from the ā50s,ā Coon says. āI just walked around in my apartment in my slip and I had pearls and a little brandy. I made a grocery list and I just did that all day. I thought how crazy you must go when youāre alone like that, when your sole purpose is to have a baby.ā
Coon grew up outside working-class Akron, Ohio, and Honey reminded her of some of her relatives ā women either trapped in gender roles like Honey or strong-willed exceptions who defied them. Ever since, Coon has brought to life a wide array of women on screen with acute perceptiveness and fierce intelligence. She may be a character-actor chameleon resistant to movie stardom, but she doesnāt blend in. A movie tends to stand up on its feet when Coon is on screen.
āCelebrities are encouraged to be the star of the show, because thatās what they do. And Iām an actor. Iām not a celebrity,ā says Coon. āIām always going to be part of the ensemble. The storytelling should happen between people. I donāt like the other thing. Iām not interested in selfishness. Itās not fun.ā
A conversation with Coon, however, is. She skips easily between self-deprecation and sincere reflection, existential doom and creative belief, book recommendations and parenting laments. As much as sheās an actor head to toe, Coon didnāt do it until her senior year of high school. In between trying half a dozen majors, she performed in plays in college and was coaxed into applying to graduate programs for acting by a professor.
āIt felt like a lark. It felt like: What a great way to spend your 20s,ā Coon says, smiling. āI thought: If it doesnāt work out, the world is big and interesting and Iāll just do something else. And it just kept working out. And itās been really steady and slow and workmanlike.ā
Like her character in āHis Three Daughters,ā Coon grew up with siblings. Her father ran the family auto parts store, and her mother was a nurse who often worked nights. Coon, the middle child of five, often with her older sister babysat the young boys. āThere was a lot of responsibility,ā she says. āIt was character building. Itās good to do laundry when youāre 8.ā
In āHis Three Daughters,ā which begins streaming Friday on Netflix, three very different sisters are brought together in a small New York apartment and, with their ailing father in the next room, argue through some of their old divisions while wrestling with their developing grief. They start out a little like stereotypes ā Lyonne is the stoner, Olsen the sweetly naive one and Coon the pushy, presumptuous older sister ā but each character grows more nuanced. Coon is eager to praise Lyonne (āAt the height of her powersā) and Olsen (āEverything she does is luminousā), and together they form an indelible trio in one of the yearās most lived-in dramas.
Asked if Coon was thinking about her own family in filming āHis Three Daughters,ā she lets out a laugh. āI mean, I was thinking of me!ā she says. Coon adds that, unlike her character Katie, sheās sensitive and communicative.
āBut I also act like an older sibling," she says. "Iāve worked very hard in my life at things that have been challenging for me. Iāve chosen to go to therapy. Iāve chosen to work on myself. And Iām very successful. So I feel greatly entitled to give my siblings lots of advice whether they want it or not. (Laughs) And I have to say, my husband is so good at not giving unsolicited advice. He gives great advice, but you have to ask. And I find that shocking!ā
Jacobs, the veteran indie filmmaker, delivered scripts for āHis Three Daughtersā simultaneously to his three stars. Actors are often valued by their box-office appeal, Jacobs notes, but Coonās worth is harder to define.
āMe telling Natasha and Lizzie that Iām also sending the script to Carrie was a huge, huge factor for them,ā Jacobs said. When shooting on āThe Gilded Ageā delayed Coonās availability, Jacobs and the co-stars agreed they should all wait for her. Coon, whose films include and the recent āGhostbustersā movies, is more accustomed to going after what she wants.
āIām happy to fight. Iām very scrappy. Iām an athlete. Bring it on!ā Coon, a former soccer player, says. āBut itās nice to say: We both want this.ā
āI always say: If Iām seeking something, I havenāt read it yet,ā Coon says. āBecause of where I am in the Hollywood hierarchy, the 10 movies that get made for women donāt include me. I have to fight for that stuff still. So, if I have ambition, itās in fighting for the things that are good and the filmmakers who are challenging.ā
In Coonās performance, Jacobs sees her subtly playing qualities in Katie that donāt explicitly manifest into well into the film, as her characterās fears and vulnerabilities grow more evident. āYou realize thereās been a step into something else, something magical, something that is the soul that I believe Carrie Coon brought to this character,ā says Jacobs.
Death hovers over āHis Three Daughters,ā a subject that inevitably brings Coon to climate change. She worries deeply about its exponentially expanding impact and what it might mean for her childrenās lives. Coon starts tearing up while she wonders: āSome of the decisions like, āwhere to go to collegeā maybe donāt matter to them. Perhaps what we need to do is maximize our time together.ā
Coon just spent six months in Thailand shooting the third season of āThe White Lotusā where, she says, āthe ocean was a hot bath, with plastic from last summer washing up on the shore.ā
For her, it casts a different light on her work.
āOn one hand, Iām grateful that I get to provide some joy in the form of āThe Gilded Ageā for example. But Iām also complicit in the pacification machine thatās keeping peopleās heads down. So Iām conflicted about that,ā Coon says. āRevolution is whatās called for. But I donāt think the human race is up for it. So I really wrestle with my own inaction in the face of that helplessness.ā
Coon canāt stop from laughing at herself. āIām basically a doomsday prepper without an insulated basement for my supplies or an AR-15 to protect them," she says.
Another way to look at Coonās concern is as an extension of her interest, as an actor, in the human condition. The global community is maybe another ensemble that Coon would like to play a role in, and see through to the next act.
āAs an artist, I donāt know how you can be ignorant about it," says Coon. "You have to engage with those questions. Itās life and death. Itās the full scope of human existence.ā
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This story has been updated to correct that Coon is the middle child of five.
Jake Coyle, The Associated Press